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Brian Kay

Brian Kay

LCSW

Therapist · Utah · 20+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for everyday struggles

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  • 20 years experience
  • LCSW in Utah
  • Values-based care

About Brian

Brian Kay is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Utah with 20 years of clinical experience. He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, addiction, and anger. His style is kind, optimistic, and interactive, focusing on respect and compassion in each conversation.

He uses clear, practical methods in sessions. That includes cognitive-behavioral ideas to spot unhelpful thoughts and acceptance and commitment strategies to clarify values and take meaningful action. Mindfulness and dialectical skills are woven in to help with emotional regulation and staying present.

Brian also draws on couple work using the Gottman Method when relationship issues are central. He tailors the plan to each person's needs rather than applying one set method to everyone. Sessions aim to be collaborative and goal-focused, with an emphasis on skills people can use between meetings.

His background includes conducting risk assessments in a psychiatric hospital and running a family advocacy program while serving in the U.S. Air Force. Those roles contributed experience with crisis situations and navigating complex family dynamics.

People who come to him often want practical tools and real-world strategies for coping with life changes, parenting stress, compassion fatigue, or challenges linked to past trauma. He encourages anyone ready to make a change to take a first step toward clearer goals and more manageable daily routines.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefDepressionCoaching

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Utah

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts, connect with what matters, and take small steps toward a values-focused life. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, anger, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thought and behavior patterns that keep problems going and then practicing different responses to change outcomes. It often helps with stress, mood, and sleep issues.

Finding the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work collaboratively to match methods to your goals, preferences, and the problems you bring. That means trying strategies, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together over time.

Please confirm which online session formats are offered before you book, as the biography does not list specific options. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also makes it possible to use exercises and tools between meetings so skills carry into daily life.

At a glance

Listed location
Utah
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (Utah)
LCSW · No. 6900083-3501
NPI
1154618973

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Brian commonly help with?

He works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, addiction, anger, ADHD, and related concerns.

What is his therapy style like?

Sessions are described as kind, empathetic, and interactive. He emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and a nonjudgmental attitude while working on practical changes.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 20 years of experience as a mental health counselor and has worked in hospital and military family advocacy settings.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in Utah and practices there.

Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not specify which formats are provided.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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