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Cira Kelley

Cira Kelley

LCSW

Therapist · New York · 25+ years of experience

Compassionate help for anger and life stress

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  • Calm practical guidance
  • Focus on relationships
  • Skills for daily life

About Cira

Cira Kelley is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in New York with 25 years of experience. She meets people where they are and helps them manage anger, stress, anxiety, and relationship struggles. Her tone is calm and straightforward, and she focuses on clear steps clients can try between sessions.

Her work emphasizes understanding what drives patterns of behavior. She uses attachment-based ideas to look at how early relationships shape current responses. She also draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and test new ways of coping.

Sessions are collaborative and client-centered. The emphasis is on listening first, then building practical strategies like communication skills, emotion regulation tools, and mindfulness practices. Clients are encouraged to set small, doable goals and notice what changes.

Cira has particular experience with family-related stress, parenting concerns, grief, trauma and abuse, and issues around identity and self-worth. She also supports people facing caregiving strain, relationship conflicts, and transitions such as divorce or separation.

Her style blends emotion-focused work and narrative approaches to help people make sense of painful events. Over time the work often moves from safety and stabilization to trying new behaviors in everyday life. The goal is steady, sustainable change rather than quick fixes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemADHD

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Approaches that translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds shape current reactions and relationships. Online conversations can help identify patterns that show up during conflict or when anger flares. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on noticing thoughts, testing them, and changing behavior. That approach works well for anxiety, anger, and low mood by giving clear, step-by-step practices to try between sessions. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes the person's experience and pacing; the therapist follows the client's lead and helps build self-awareness and strength.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process. Cira will collaborate with each person to decide which approaches fit their needs and goals. That means checking in on what feels useful and adapting plans so strategies match day-to-day life and personal preferences.

Confirm current session options before booking since specific formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, save commute time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also make it simpler to use written exercises, screen-sharing for worksheets, and guided mindfulness practices between meetings.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (New York)
LCSW · No. 096756
NPI
1023308830

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Cira help with?

She helps with anger, stress, anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, parenting and family issues, grief, trauma and related concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and client-centered, with a focus on listening, emotion work, and practical skills people can use between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

She has 25 years of clinical experience working with adults on a range of life and relationship challenges.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session based on therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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