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Esther Lowery

Esther Lowery

LCMFT, LMFT

Therapist · Maryland · 13+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist focused on relationships and anger

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  • Attachment-informed
  • Practical tools
  • Strengths-based

About Esther

Esther Lowery is a licensed marriage and family therapist who emphasizes attachment and client-centered work. She draws on 13 years of experience to help people struggling with relationship pain, anger, self-esteem, and depression. Esther encourages clients to use their own strengths as the starting point for change. Esther treats relationship and intimacy-related concerns in clear, practical ways. She helps people name patterns that cause friction and supports them in practicing different responses. Sessions focus on real-life steps clients can try between meetings. She also works with grief, trauma and abuse, and the emotional weight of life transitions. For people juggling career stress, parenting demands, or ADHD, Esther looks for tools that fit daily life. Her approach blends talk with simple behavioral strategies. Esther uses Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early bonds affect current relationships. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thoughts and change behavior. Client-Centered Therapy guides the pace, with the client’s goals directing the work. Esther holds LCMFT and LMFT credentials and practices in Maryland. She frames therapy as a partnership and invites clients to bring what matters most into sessions. The aim is clearer communication, less reactivity, and more satisfying connection.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisPostpartum depressionSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingInternal Family Systems

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

Connecticut, Maryland

Languages

English

How her therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Esther often uses Attachment-Based Therapy to understand how past relationship patterns shape current reactions. This approach helps people see why they respond strongly to partners or loved ones and then try different, less reactive ways of connecting. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors. CBT breaks problems into small steps so clients can practice changes between sessions and track progress. Finding the right approach is part of the work. Esther treats therapy as a collaboration and will discuss which methods match a person’s goals and preferences. Together they decide what feels most helpful and adjust over time. For practical matters, confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, cut travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. They can also let people use quieter surroundings or lower-bandwidth connections when needed. Ask about format options when you schedule so sessions match daily routines and goals.

At a glance

Listed location
Maryland
Experience
13+ years
Credentials
LCMFT, LMFT
Languages
English
License (Connecticut)
LMFT · No. 001584
License (Maryland)
LCMFT · No. LCM971
NPI
1932447448

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Esther commonly address?

She works with relationship and intimacy issues, anger, depression, self-esteem, grief, trauma and related challenges like ADHD and parenting strain.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style blends attachment insights with client-centered listening and practical CBT or DBT techniques to help people change thoughts and behaviors.

What experience does she bring to therapy?

Esther has 13 years of professional experience working with clients on relationship struggles, life changes, and emotional regulation concerns.

What credentials and region should I know about?

She holds LCMFT and LMFT credentials and practices in Maryland. The LMFT is listed for Connecticut and the LCMFT for Maryland.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. meet with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs and fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

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Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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