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Holly Lampkin

Holly Lampkin

LMFT

Therapist · Oklahoma · 7+ years of experience

Compassionate, practical support for anger and relationships

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  • LMFT in Oklahoma
  • Focus on relationships
  • Practical coping tools

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who helps people manage anger and a wide range of related concerns. She offers straightforward support for stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, and issues tied to addiction and intimacy. Her tone is practical and focused on helping people make changes that fit their life.

Holly works in a direct, person-centered way. She listens without judgment and helps clients name what is happening. Sessions aim to identify patterns, try small changes, and build coping tools that feel useful day to day.

Her clinical work draws on several evidence-based approaches. She uses cognitive behavioral techniques to spot and shift unhelpful thinking. She brings acceptance and commitment ideas to help people clarify values and take steps toward them. She also uses emotionally-focused and relationship-focused methods when concerns center on connection and communication.

Holly has seven years of professional experience and holds LMFT credentials in Colorado and Oklahoma. She often helps people who are working through trauma, family and relationship disruption, body image concerns, and issues connected to sexual expression and BDSM or kink culture. Her approach includes practical goal-setting, skill practice, and coaching-style support where helpful.

People who choose her can expect a collaborative process. She helps clients set goals, try new strategies between sessions, and track progress over time. Prospective clients should confirm current session options before booking.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Colorado

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they translate online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice thoughts and feelings without being ruled by them, then take actions that match their values. It can help with anger, anxiety, and making steady changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical skills to change patterns that cause distress. It is useful for stress, depression, and unhelpful reactions. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people understand and shift emotional responses in relationships, improving connection and communication when intimacy or conflict is central.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and problem areas and then suggest methods to try. Clients and the therapist adjust the plan as they learn what helps most in real life.

Confirm which session formats are offered before you book, since the profile does not list specific options. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, or use shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Some approaches lend themselves to skills practice and homework that fit well into remote sessions, while relationship-focused work can adapt to video or phone conversations depending on what the client prefers.

At a glance

Listed location
Oklahoma
Experience
7+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Oklahoma)
LMFT · No. 10229
License (Colorado)
LMFT · No. MFT.0002180
NPI
1134446230

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Holly help with?

She supports people with anger, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, and related challenges such as body image and codependency.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is direct and person-centered. She listens without judgment and works with clients to set practical goals and try new strategies between sessions.

What is her background and experience?

Holly has seven years of professional experience helping people with personal growth, behavioral patterns, and relationship problems.

What credentials and location does she hold?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - credentialed in Colorado and Oklahoma and practices from Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported and can international clients be seen?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the profile and may vary.

How does cost and scheduling work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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