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James Engen

James Engen

LMFT

Therapist · Minnesota · 11+ years of experience

Practical, story-focused therapy for real-life change

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  • Strengths based
  • Story oriented
  • Goal focused

About James

James Engen is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in Minnesota with eleven years of clinical experience. He focuses on helping people who are facing anger, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, and other life stresses. His approach begins with listening to what matters to each person and identifying practical steps toward clearer goals.

He describes problems as obstacles to living a fuller life rather than as defining features of a person. In sessions he draws on narrative ideas to look at life stories and psychodynamic ideas to notice patterns from the past. Client-centered work shapes the pace and direction, and hypnotherapy may be offered as one technique among others.

James has worked in a range of settings before private practice, including supporting people who were homeless and roles outside of therapy such as mechanic and school district management assistant. That variety informs a down-to-earth style and a focus on real-world changes. He emphasizes building on strengths and small steps that fit daily life.

Sessions aim to be collaborative and straightforward. Together with each client he identifies goals, notices recurring patterns, and experiments with new ways of responding. The overall aim is clearer choices, less overwhelm, and more movement toward the life the client wants.

If a reader is considering therapy for anger or related concerns, the process begins by clarifying what needs to change and choosing methods that match those goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyHypnotherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

Minnesota

Languages

English

How narrative and client-centered work translate online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and following what matters most to the person. The therapist reflects concerns back, helps clarify goals, and adjusts pace so clients feel understood and in control. This approach helps with anger, stress, and decisions about next steps.

Narrative therapy looks at the stories people tell about themselves and their relationships. It helps separate problems from identity and opens space for new ways of acting. This can be useful for issues like shame, codependency, and patterns that keep recurring.

Psychodynamic ideas are also part of his toolkit and help identify recurring emotional patterns that come from earlier relationships. Noticing these patterns can reduce impulsive reactions and support calmer choices over time.

Finding the right approach happens together. The therapist will ask about your goals, try techniques that fit those goals, and check in about what helps. That collaborative process is part of the early sessions and can change as needs shift.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. In general, online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when helpful, and remove travel time. Discussing practical details during the first contact will make it easier to choose how sessions will work for everyday life.

At a glance

Listed location
Minnesota
Experience
11+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Minnesota)
LMFT · No. 2099
NPI
1154061679

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he help with?

He works with anger, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief, trauma, addictions, parenting stress, career issues, and related concerns listed in his specialties.

What is his general approach in sessions?

He uses a mix of client-centered listening, narrative work to examine life stories, and psychodynamic ideas to notice patterns. Sessions focus on practical steps toward the client's goals.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has eleven years of experience as a licensed clinician working in a variety of settings, including private practice and services for people who were homeless.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) licensed in Minnesota and practices in that state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and what about cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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