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Jeffrey Lavoie

Jeffrey Lavoie

LMFT

Therapist · Connecticut · 6+ years of experience

Calm, practical support for hard moments

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  • Collaborative approach
  • Anger and stress focus
  • Parenting and ADHD

About Jeffrey

Jeffrey Lavoie is an LMFT with six years of clinical experience. He works with people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, parenting worries, anger, and major life changes. He also supports clients living with ADHD and those facing blended family challenges.

He takes a collaborative, person-centered approach in sessions. That means he listens first, then helps clients find practical steps that match their goals. He focuses on clear communication, building self-compassion, and practical skills for managing strong emotions like anger and impulsivity.

Jeffrey has experience supporting first responders and people exploring gender identity. He also helps clients who manage panic attacks, autism spectrum experiences, or intellectual disability related concerns. His work includes addressing control issues, forgiveness, and finding a clearer sense of life purpose.

Sessions are aimed at skill-building and real-world changes. Jeffrey uses straightforward tools to reduce overwhelm, improve daily routines, and strengthen relationships. He helps people break down problems into manageable steps and practice new behaviors between sessions.

People who reach out can expect a warm, respectful space to talk through what matters most. Jeffrey emphasizes working at each person’s pace and creating goals together. He invites those ready to take a step toward change to begin the matching and scheduling process.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-harmSelf-love

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Connecticut

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Jeffrey draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on skills and behavior change. One approach centers on building emotion regulation skills to lower reactivity and manage anger and panic. This involves learning specific strategies to notice triggers, pause, and choose alternative responses that fit daily life.

Another common focus is communication and problem-solving work. These strategies help people improve conversations, set clearer boundaries, and manage blended family dynamics or parenting stress. The work is practical and often includes role-play or small homework tasks to try between sessions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. Jeffrey works together with each person to identify which techniques match their goals, preferences, and the problems they want to solve. He adjusts the plan as needed based on what helps most in real life.

If you are interested in online options, confirm the current session formats before booking since formats are not listed here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and let people meet from different locations within the same state. They can also allow for shorter check-ins when that fits a work break, or for camera-off conversations when that helps someone focus on the discussion rather than the screen.

At a glance

Listed location
Connecticut
Experience
6+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (Connecticut)
LMFT · No. 27.003743
NPI
1992435044

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, parenting challenges, anger, and coping with life changes. He also supports people with ADHD and blended family issues.

What is his therapy style like?

He uses a collaborative, person-centered style that focuses on listening and practical steps. Sessions emphasize building communication skills, self-compassion, and tools for managing emotions.

How much experience does he have?

He has six years of clinical experience working with a range of concerns including panic attacks, impulsivity, and midlife transitions.

What are his credentials and location?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT, practicing in Connecticut.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients arrange sessions?

He is not currently accepting international clients.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start therapy with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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