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Dr. Katherine (Kate) Bergam

Dr. Katherine (Kate) Bergam

LMFT

Therapist · California · 22+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for anger and stress

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  • 22 years experience
  • California LMFT
  • Practical steps focus

About Katherine

Dr. Katherine (Kate) Bergam helps people manage anger, stress, anxiety, and sleep problems. She also supports work around self-esteem, career direction, ADHD, grief, and relationship concerns. Kate is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 22 years of experience in California.

Her style is respectful and down-to-earth. She listens first, then tailors conversations and plans to what each person needs. Sessions focus on practical steps people can try between meetings as well as ways to understand what drives difficult emotions.

Over two decades of practice have included work with isolation, depression, insomnia, and coping with life transitions. That background informs a steady, problem-solving approach to everyday struggles like panic, social anxiety, and communication problems. She also addresses concerns such as body image, hoarding, and end-of-life issues.

Kate emphasizes sensitivity and compassion in the therapeutic space. She helps people notice patterns, test new behaviors, and build routines that support better sleep and calmer reactions. The aim is to create manageable changes that fit real life.

To begin, she asks clients a few questions to understand goals and current challenges. From there she and the client shape a plan that fits timing and needs. The focus is on clear steps and steady progress rather than quick fixes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietySleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesADHD

Also works with

Relationship issuesGriefAnger managementCoaching

Additional focus areas

Body imageCommunication problemsHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work

Evidence-based techniques often focus on learning new ways to respond to strong emotions and building routines that reduce stress and improve sleep. One common approach teaches skills for noticing triggers and practicing alternative responses to anger and anxiety, which helps reduce impulsive reactions and panic symptoms.

Another approach centers on behavioral changes and small habit shifts to improve sleep and day-to-day functioning. This includes setting realistic routines, trying brief experiments between sessions, and tracking what helps with energy and mood.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose techniques that match their goals, daily life, and preferences. That joint decision-making aims to make sessions feel useful from the start.

Please confirm current session options before booking because specific formats are not listed in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy schedule, avoid travel time, and continue regular check-ins during periods of change. Different session arrangements may also help when someone needs a shorter check-in or prefers not to be on camera.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
22+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 44399
NPI
1508901695

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She supports people working through anger, stress, anxiety, sleep problems, self-esteem, career questions, ADHD, grief, and relationship struggles among other worries.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her approach is respectful and practical. She listens carefully and then tailors conversations and plans to each person's needs.

What is her professional background?

She has 22 years of professional experience focused on issues like isolation, depression, insomnia, and coping with life stressors.

What are her credentials and location?

She holds the LMFT credential and practices in California.

Which languages are offered and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified in the biography.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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