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Lilia Sykes

Lilia Sykes

BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 8+ years of experience

Calm listening with practical strategies

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  • Person-centred care
  • Minds and behaviour
  • Flexible scheduling

About Lilia

Lilia Sykes is a BACP counsellor based in the United Kingdom who focuses on helping people manage anger and related struggles. She offers a calm, attentive presence and listens without judgement. Lilia aims to help clients build kinder relationships with themselves and others through steady, practical work. She uses a person-centred foundation to create a warm space where clients set the pace. That means sessions are shaped around what each person brings, not a fixed agenda. Her practice also draws on cognitive behavioural ideas, acceptance and commitment methods, mindfulness and motivational interviewing to offer simple tools and fresh perspectives when helpful. Lilia has eight years of experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, depression and grief. She also helps with relationship difficulties, self-esteem, coping with life changes, addiction concerns and challenges linked to ADHD and neurodiversity. Practical topics such as sleep, eating, career stress and caregiver strain are part of her work too. She often integrates short exercises, gentle mindfulness and action-focused steps into sessions when clients want tangible strategies. Many people appreciate the chance to talk things through and then try small, manageable changes between meetings. Sessions are usually arranged with flexibility and Lilia is open to answering questions before you start. If you are looking for straightforward support for anger or related issues, she invites you to reach out and explore whether her style fits your needs.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessMulticultural concernsPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Lilia uses therapy online and what it looks like

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting overwhelmed by them, then choose actions that reflect their values. It can help when anger or stress interfere with what matters most. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on creating a non-judgemental, listening space where the person leads the conversation; this approach supports people who need understanding and time to make sense of things. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and offers practical steps to test and change unhelpful patterns that keep problems going.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. The therapist will work with clients to see which ideas and techniques feel useful. Some people prefer skills they can practise between sessions while others want mostly reflective conversations. Choices are guided by each person's goals and comfort level.

Many clients find online work easier to fit into busy lives. Lilia mainly offers voice calls to reduce screen strain, and she can offer video or live chat when a client strongly prefers those options. Before booking, confirm the current session formats so they match your needs. Remote sessions can make it simpler to have shorter check-ins, schedule appointments around work or caring commitments, and use time efficiently while still getting focused support.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
8+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 377735

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She supports people with anger alongside stress, anxiety, depression and grief, plus relationship and self-esteem issues.

How would she approach my situation?

Her core approach is person-centred listening, paired with practical tools from cognitive behavioural methods, acceptance and commitment therapy and mindfulness.

How long has she been practising?

She has eight years of experience working with clients in a counselling role.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Yes, she accepts international clients and can work with people based outside the United Kingdom.

Which session formats does she offer?

Her biography states she mostly offers voice calls and can make exceptions for video calls or live chat if a client strongly prefers those options. Confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and registration details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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