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Lydia Frazier

Lydia Frazier

LISW

Therapist · Iowa · 25+ years of experience

Practical therapy for stress, anger, and life changes

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  • Strengths based
  • Values focused
  • Skill oriented

About Lydia

Lydia Frazier is a licensed independent social worker (LISW) with 25 years of experience supporting people facing stress, anxiety, depression, anger, and trauma. She describes her work in plain terms: listening to your story, noticing what drains or energizes you, and helping you make changes that fit your life. Lydia aims to create space for honest conversation and practical steps forward.

Her approach is individualized and flexible. She draws from methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and client-centered techniques. Lydia often looks beyond symptoms to see how sleep, diet, movement, relationships, and past experiences shape day-to-day feelings and behavior.

She commonly helps people with relationships, intimacy-related issues, parenting strain, grief, addictions, ADHD, and career stress. Additional focuses include attachment concerns, blended family challenges, body image, codependency, and recovery after separation or divorce. Lydia also addresses compassion fatigue and the effects of natural or human-caused disaster.

Lydia emphasizes a strengths-based perspective. In sessions she mixes practical skills, mindfulness, and conversations about values to build a realistic plan. The goal is a clearer sense of what matters and small steps toward it.

Based in Iowa, she offers therapy in English and does not take international clients. To begin, people typically follow an intake path that matches needs to scheduling and therapist fit.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Iowa

Languages

English

How these approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters to them and take small, doable steps toward those values. It combines practical exercises and short in-session practices to change unhelpful patterns. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape expectations and connection, and it uses conversations to rebuild trust and emotional safety in current relationships. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is about noticing unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce distress and improve everyday functioning.

Finding the right approach is often a collaborative process. Lydia works with each person to pick methods that match their goals, pace, and comfort level. She adjusts techniques over time based on what proves most useful for daily life and relationships.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also lets people try different ways of working in a familiar setting while the therapist and client figure out the best practical plan together.

At a glance

Listed location
Iowa
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
LISW
Languages
English
License (Iowa)
LISW · No. 05464
NPI
1164586855

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lydia commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, grief, addictions, ADHD, and related life changes.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is practical and individualized, blending skills training, mindfulness, and values-based conversations to help people make concrete changes.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 25 years of experience working with a range of concerns and draws on several therapeutic approaches to match each person’s needs.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds the LISW credential and practices from Iowa.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not accepted at this time.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What do I do to get started?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on the therapist’s availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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