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Mary  Downer

Mary Downer

LISW

Therapist · Ohio · 17+ years of experience

Practical, strengths-based therapy for everyday struggles

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  • CBT and trauma-focused
  • Strengths-based support
  • Practical coping skills

About Mary

Mary Downer is a Licensed Independent Social Worker (LISW) based in Ohio with 17 years of experience. She uses down-to-earth language and practical strategies to help people facing stress, anxiety, trauma, anger, and depression. Mary aims to make the first step less overwhelming and encourages clients to use their own strengths in the process.

Mary draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Trauma-Focused Therapy to guide sessions. She helps people notice patterns in thoughts and behaviors, try manageable changes, and practice new skills between meetings. For trauma, she focuses on stabilizing reactions and building skills to feel more grounded over time.

Her approach is open minded and nonjudgmental. She emphasizes collaboration so each person has a say in what happens in sessions. That often means setting small goals, tracking progress, and adjusting plans when needed.

Mary also addresses attention challenges, autism spectrum concerns, compulsive behaviors, grief, parenting stress, relationship and communication issues, and compassion fatigue. She pays attention to practical problems like impulsivity, control issues, and feelings of isolation. Her work aims to make daily life easier and more manageable.

If someone is thinking about starting, Mary encourages taking the step and asking questions about how therapy would fit into their life. The focus stays on what a person wants to change and what feels doable for them.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Trauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Credentials

Ohio

Languages

English

How Mary’s Approaches Translate to Online Care

Mary uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people identify unhelpful thinking and change small behaviors that get in the way of daily life. CBT sessions typically involve problem-solving, practicing new skills, and tracking progress between meetings.

She also uses Trauma-Focused Therapy to address reactions that follow difficult events. This approach emphasizes stabilizing strong reactions, learning coping tools, and then working at a pace the person can manage.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Mary works with each person to decide which method fits their goals and comfort level. She adapts plans over time so therapy stays useful and relevant to the person’s needs.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, since the biography does not list specific options. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when days are tight, and offer flexibility for those balancing work or parenting. Ask about format details during the matching and scheduling steps so you can pick what fits your routine.

At a glance

Listed location
Ohio
Experience
17+ years
Credentials
LISW
Languages
English
License (Ohio)
LISW · No. I.0900227
NPI
1942624127

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary commonly help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, ADHD, grief, and related life challenges. The list also includes parenting strain, compassion fatigue, and relationship or communication problems.

What is the general therapy style used in sessions?

Mary uses a practical, collaborative style that emphasizes skills and problem solving. Sessions often focus on identifying thought and behavior patterns and trying small changes that fit daily life.

How much professional experience does this therapist have?

Mary has 17 years of professional experience working in social work roles. That background informs her approach to common concerns such as trauma, mood, and attention differences.

What credentials and region are associated with Mary?

She holds the LISW credential, which stands for Licensed Independent Social Worker, and practices in Ohio.

Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Please confirm current session options before booking, since specific formats are not listed in the biography. The therapist can clarify how sessions are conducted when you start the process.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Exact pricing is provided during intake and scheduling.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability. The questionnaire helps match goals and preferences before scheduling.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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