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Patricia Sumlin

Patricia Sumlin

LMFT

Therapist · Washington · 25+ years of experience

Straightforward support for emotion regulation and healing

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  • Direct practical tools
  • Trauma-informed care
  • 25 years experience

About Patricia

Patricia Sumlin is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of experience. She works with people facing anger, stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship strain, addiction concerns, and many life transitions. Patricia aims to give straightforward, practical help so people can build better emotional control and clearer relationships.

She blends several therapy approaches to match each person's needs. Sessions focus on teaching coping skills, emotional regulation, and ways to respond differently to old patterns. Patricia uses direct, nonjudgmental feedback and practical exercises so clients leave with usable tools rather than only ideas.

Her background includes running outpatient clinics, DBT groups, medical behavioral health programs, and trauma-informed work in rural Alaska. She has experience with diverse and multicultural populations and has provided services in settings that included hospice, substance-use treatment, and re-entry programs for formerly incarcerated people.

Patricia commonly helps people dealing with trauma histories, traumatic bonding and narcissistic abuse, and adults on the autistic spectrum who want to better understand Asperger's in their lives and relationships. She also provides support around parenting concerns, caregiving stress, and workplace issues related to ableism and bullying.

In sessions she draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, attachment-based ideas, dialectical behavior approaches, and client-centered work. The goal is to increase resilience, strengthen coping, and improve daily functioning through a collaborative therapeutic alliance.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

California, Washington

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches that translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing painful thoughts without getting stuck in them and choosing actions that match personal values. It can help with anxiety, anger, life transitions, and low motivation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and uses practical exercises to change patterns that fuel depression, anxiety, and anger. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches concrete emotion-regulation and interpersonal skills useful for intense moods and relationship conflict.

Figuring out which approach fits best is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to match techniques to goals, combining methods when useful. That process is gradual and guided by what helps in day-to-day life.

Confirm the current session options before booking, as formats are not listed here. Many people find online therapy easier to fit into a busy routine and to maintain consistency. It can reduce travel time, allow shorter or more focused check-ins when needed, and make it simpler to schedule sessions around work or caregiving responsibilities. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises and skill-building work to an online setting so progress keeps moving forward.

At a glance

Listed location
Washington
Experience
25+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 44844
License (Washington)
LMFT · No. LF 60059026
NPI
1891899027

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Patricia focus on?

She works with a wide range of concerns including anger, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and family strain, addictions, grief, intimacy issues, and ADHD-related struggles.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is practical and straightforward with a nonjudgmental tone. Sessions combine skill teaching, insight work, and direct feedback to help people change unhelpful patterns.

How long has she been practicing?

She has 25 years of clinical experience across outpatient clinics, group programs, medical behavioral health, and trauma-informed community work.

What credentials and location apply to her practice?

She is a LMFT and holds California and Washington LMFT licenses. Her practice is based in Washington.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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