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Paul Buehler

Paul Buehler

LICSW, LCSW

Therapist · New York · 5+ years of experience

Supportive clinician focused on practical change

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  • Relationship focused
  • Skills oriented
  • Trauma aware

About Paul

Paul Buehler is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in New York. He brings five years of licensed clinical experience and a long background in mental health services to his sessions. Paul focuses on building a strong working relationship and meeting people where they are. He aims to help people make the changes they want in their lives.

Paul’s approach is straightforward and practical. He listens without judgment and helps people develop skills to manage stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. He also supports those coping with grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, parenting challenges, and career or life transitions. Paul has experience with trauma and with LGBTQ clients, and he has worked on issues linked to adoption, attachment, caregiving stress, and social anxiety.

Sessions combine collaborative conversation with tools drawn from Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Mindfulness Therapy when appropriate. He uses Motivational Interviewing and Solution-Focused techniques to help clients set and reach goals. The work is paced around each person’s needs and preferences.

Paul often begins with a video meeting to establish rapport and set initial goals. He is comfortable using a range of communication methods depending on what clients find helpful. He aims for clear, practical steps people can try between sessions.

People who contact him typically want a calm, respectful space to talk through what’s overwhelming them. Paul acknowledges that change takes courage and offers steady support while clients build new habits and strategies.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePost-traumatic stressSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

New York, Washington

Languages

English

How Paul Uses Talk-Based and Skill-Focused Approaches Online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building a trusting relationship so people feel heard and can set their own goals. It helps when someone needs a steady, empathetic space to sort out feelings and choices.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts and behaviors interact and teaches concrete strategies to reduce anxiety, manage anger, or ease depression. CBT is useful for coping with stress, addressing unhelpful thinking patterns, and practicing new behaviors between sessions.

Mindfulness Therapy brings attention to the present moment and helps reduce reactivity to difficult emotions. It can support people dealing with trauma, loneliness, or ongoing stress by teaching simple awareness exercises.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is collaborative. The therapist will work with the client to identify goals and try methods that fit their needs and preferences. If an approach doesn’t feel right, adjustments are made together so the work stays practical and relevant.

Confirm the current session formats before booking since the biography emphasizes beginning with a video meeting as helpful. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. These practical benefits often help people sustain momentum as they practice new skills and cope with life changes.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
5+ years
Credentials
LICSW, LCSW
Languages
English
License (New York)
LCSW · No. 076685
License (Washington)
LICSW · No. LW 61650792
NPI
1881949261

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paul commonly help with?

He helps people address stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, career changes, and trauma-related concerns.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

His style is compassionate and non-judgmental, focusing on building a strong working relationship and practical skills to manage everyday problems.

What is his background and clinical experience?

Paul has five years of licensed clinical practice and a long history in mental health and direct services to youth and families prior to his current licensure.

What credentials and location are listed for him?

He holds LICSW and LCSW credentials and practices in New York.

Which languages are supported and can he work internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are used?

The biography notes starting with a video meeting is often helpful; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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