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Paul Knight

Paul Knight

LMFT

Therapist · California · 26+ years of experience

Calm, practical therapy for intense emotion and change

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  • Focus on anger and coping
  • Practical skill building
  • Collaborative treatment planning

About Paul

Paul Knight is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people manage strong emotions and life disruptions. He focuses on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar concerns, grief, addiction, anger, and self-esteem. Paul aims to create a calm, respectful space where people can speak openly about what’s hard right now.

He shapes conversations and plans to fit each person’s needs. That might mean short practical exercises one week and deeper reflection the next. Paul stresses compassion and steady support as people try new ways of coping. He encourages small, achievable steps toward change.

With more than 26 years of clinical experience, Paul draws on several approaches to guide sessions. He uses techniques that look at thoughts and behaviors, skills for managing intense emotions, and problem-focused strategies to set realistic goals. He also brings psychodynamic ideas about patterns and life history into the work when that helps.

Paul has worked with people facing aging and geriatric issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, HIV/AIDS concerns, hoarding, personality challenges, and self-harm. He adapts his methods to match the problem a person brings and their personal values.

Sessions are offered in English and conducted from California. Paul frames therapy as a partnership: he listens first, then helps plan a path forward that fits daily life and priorities.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeHIV / AIDSHoardingPersonality disordersSelf-harm

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

26+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and practical benefits

Paul often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy in sessions. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety and depression. DBT teaches emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal skills for managing intense moods and anger.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paul treats the choice of method as a collaborative decision based on each person's goals, struggles, and preferences. He will listen to what you need, try approaches that make sense, and adjust the plan if something is not working.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm current session options before booking since formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, shorten travel time, and allow for quick check-ins on stressful days. They also let people try skills in the context of everyday life and bring real situations into session for problem-solving. Talk with Paul about what will fit your routine and comfort level before scheduling.

At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
26+ years
Credentials
LMFT
Languages
English
License (California)
LMFT · No. 44767
NPI
1457425597

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paul commonly address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar concerns, grief, addiction, anger, relationship strain, and self-esteem issues, among other challenges.

How would sessions with him feel day to day?

Sessions mix practical exercises and conversation. Expect skill practice, reflection on patterns, and steps that fit your life.

What is Paul’s professional background?

Paul brings 26 years of clinical experience supporting people through mood, behavior, and life transition challenges.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - practicing from California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are offered to clients located in California.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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