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Tommi-Jai Walsh

Tommi-Jai Walsh

LSCSW, LCSW

Therapist · Missouri · 21+ years of experience

Warm, practical therapy for real-life struggles

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  • Nonjudgmental listener
  • Focus on coping skills
  • LGBTQ+ affirming

About Tommi-Jai

Tommi-Jai Walsh is a licensed social worker with more than 21 years of counseling experience. He brings a relaxed, down-to-earth manner to sessions and aims to create a space where people can talk honestly about what is hard. He is a trans woman since 2020 and is an ally and member of the LGBTQ+ community.

Tommi-Jai focuses on everyday problems like stress, anxiety, anger, depression, and relationship strain. He also helps people dealing with trauma, grief, parenting concerns, and changes in life circumstances. His work includes attention to sexual and gender identity, ADHD, bipolar issues, and concerns tied to alternative sexual cultures.

In sessions he looks at the thinking patterns that feed distress and helps people name emotions that are stuck inside. He uses practical tools from cognitive behavioral and dialectical approaches to build skills for coping and regulation. He also draws on client-centered and emotionally focused ideas to strengthen connection and self-awareness.

Tommi-Jai encourages straightforward conversation and a little humor when it fits. He aims to help clients understand how past events shaped them and to make a clear plan for change. He works from Missouri as a Kansas LSCSW and Missouri LCSW.

People who want a nonjudgmental therapist who listens and offers concrete strategies may find his style a good match. Those curious about exploring values, relationships, or anger can expect direct, supportive guidance toward practical steps.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposePolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Credentials

Kansas, Missouri

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and supporting each person's goals. Online sessions using this approach center the client's priorities and help people feel heard while they sort out next steps.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and behaviors affect mood. In online sessions that use CBT the therapist and client identify unhelpful thinking, try small experiments, and build practical habits to reduce anxiety or anger.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, teaches skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and better communication. Delivered virtually, DBT tools can be practiced between sessions and applied to intense moments as they arise.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with the client to pick methods that match needs, goals, and preferences. That collaboration helps tailor sessions and adjust strategies over time.

The biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online therapy helps fit sessions into a busy life, makes it easier to schedule around work or childcare, and lets skill practice happen between meetings. Licensed professionals can use these approaches effectively in remote work, while adapting pace and tools to each person's situation.

At a glance

Listed location
Missouri
Experience
21+ years
Credentials
LSCSW, LCSW
Languages
English
License (Kansas)
LSCSW · No. 2215
License (Missouri)
LCSW · No. 2001028090
NPI
1679625958

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist help with?

Tommi-Jai works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy issues, parenting, bipolar, ADHD and related life changes.

What is the therapy style like?

Sessions are down-to-earth and conversational. He combines talk-based listening with practical skill teaching to reduce distress and improve coping.

How much clinical experience is there?

Tommi-Jai has 21 years of counseling experience and describes a low-key, personable approach with an affirming stance toward LGBTQ+ people and alternative lifestyles.

What credentials and location apply?

He holds KS LSCSW and MO LCSW credentials and practices from Missouri.

Which languages and international work are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current options before booking.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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