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Vondolyn Lane

Vondolyn Lane

LMHC

Therapist · New York · 14+ years of experience

Practical, empathetic counseling for everyday struggles

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  • Client-centered care
  • CBT and mindfulness
  • 14 years experience

About Vondolyn

Vondolyn Lane is a licensed mental health counselor with 14 years of experience in New York. She focuses on practical, down-to-earth help for stress, anxiety, anger, and motivation. She aims to make the first step into therapy feel manageable and respectful. Lane uses a client-centered style that puts each person's goals first. She helps people name what matters most, whether it is building confidence, improving relationships, or coping with big life changes. Sessions are meant to feel like a calm place to say what is real and work toward clearer next steps. Her approach also draws on cognitive behavioral ideas to notice unhelpful thinking and try different behaviors. Mindfulness techniques are used to calm intense moments and help people stay present. Narrative tools can help reframe painful stories into more useful ones. People come for a range of concerns including depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, and ADHD. Lane also supports those dealing with caregiver stress, first responder strain, issues around commitment and communication, and struggles with impulsivity and guilt. She aims to reduce shame and increase practical skills. Conversations focus on immediate coping strategies and small experiments people can try between sessions. The goal is steady progress that fits into everyday life, not overnight fixes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How evidence‑based approaches translate to online care

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and tailoring each session to what matters most to the person. Online sessions can still center the client's priorities and build a collaborative plan for change.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors. In remote sessions, CBT tools like thought records and behavioral experiments can be assigned and reviewed between meetings.

Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple attention and grounding practices to reduce reactivity and manage anger or anxiety. These exercises can be guided in a session and practiced afterward as part of daily routine.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will help figure out which methods fit the client's goals and preferences through discussion and small trials. This is a collaborative process and adjustments are made as needed.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as specific remote options are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time so sessions are more practical for people juggling responsibilities.

At a glance

Listed location
New York
Experience
14+ years
Credentials
LMHC
Languages
English
License (New York)
LMHC · No. 013053
NPI
1720343874

As listed by the therapist. You can check a license with the state board and an NPI with the national registry.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be addressed in sessions?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, anger, and self-esteem concerns as well as depression, grief, addictions, trauma and abuse, bipolar issues, ADHD, and intimacy-related concerns.

How does she approach therapy?

The work is client-centered, putting the person's goals first while using cognitive behavioral and mindfulness techniques to change thoughts and manage strong emotions.

What is her background and experience?

She holds a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor credential and has 14 years of professional experience in clinical work.

Where is she based and licensed?

She is licensed in New York and practices with a New York LMHC credential.

In which languages are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should someone do to begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Before you start

  • Online talk therapy is not a court-ordered or mandated anger-management course, and it does not provide attendance certificates.
  • Check that the location and license details above fit where you live.
  • If anyone is at risk of being harmed, contact emergency services or a domestic-abuse helpline first. See the support lines for the US, UK and Australia.
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